Wednesday, January 24, 2007 ;
1/24/2007 08:24:00 PM
hey people.
just came back from 'school' like a few 10 mins ago. anyways today was a rather terrible and boring day. let me show u how boring a sec4 life is. also, it was rather stressful. anyways,we have a differentiation test next wednesday and yeah. tomorrow there are 4 math periods. kill me please. we're gonna get back our e math test paper. and here are the results for my tests:
1. Chemistry - 21/30
2. Biology - 11/20
3. Social Studies - 7/13
so overall, i still passed everything. but i'm really nervous about the lit test though and the geog test! how? sighs. anyways. lets step aside from school. lets talk about friendships. something kinda did affect me recently. kinda.. expected i mean, but not to this extent. anyways. let me just share with you my feelings.
when you get close to a friend, and become good friends. or lets just say when you meet a strnger and you become friends, is there anything wrong? not really right? okays. now let me put it this way. if you befriend this stranger who has a boyfriend, it that okay? well i think it is right? so is there anything wrong? no right? hmmmms. okays. but look, its normal to get jealous right? if your girlfriend started hanging out with a guy really often, won't you get a little pissed and jealous? you would right? hmmms. alright now lets look at this closer. if you and your girlfriend have so many problems, but your close friend,who is a girl does things for you like buy chocolates for you and give you unintentionally seductive smiles at you and offers you food everytime she sees you, is that alright to you? if you were a guy? i mean duh. i have problems and i just wana thorw them aside right? hmmms. but how would the girl feel? what do you think she'll feel? alright? perfectly okay? hmmms. i dont think so right... c'mon who would. guys, if your girlfriend started getting close to a guy, would u even be fine with that? no.... look. its not about trusting, its about accpeting and the capability to affect and change the person. some girls dont like to be controlled, we just gotta accept that. some would change for their guys, alike, some guys just dont like following their girls ideas and they follow theirs. i mean whatever it really all is, i think that being smart in a relationship is the most important. being smart in the sense of, being HONEST everytime, if you have problems amongst yourself, its better to talk it out than hide it. try to accept the person for who they are. try to understand the person, look at his/her background. however, if you really cant take the pain, maybe its better to just break-up and leave each other. maybe its the best way. i seriously think that if you're in pain and you dont think your relationship is going to last, mentally prepare yourself for anything to come and when it does. hopefully it wont be that painful.
anyways. thats all i have for today. i'll blog sooner or later.
much love!
every life is a new experience
